Wednesday, March 16, 2011

The Stupid Sign

Is it just me or do all women think that they must have a sign taped to there forehead that says, "Hey!!, Lie to me because I am STUPID and I will believe all of it!"  Thats what I usually feel like when I know that I am being lied to. But then again women always seem to think that they are soooo in Love and does it really matter sometimes if they are lying?? I mean are we really going to do anything about it?? Are we really going to kick them out because they decided to not be openly honest about something that WE find important?? probably NOT... and there goes the relationship. Trust just flys out the window. Once you have broken that trust it seems like the rest of your relationship is just a life long situation trying to convince yourself that you have done nothing wrong and the spouse spends the rest of their life trying to convince you that they are trustworthy and all that time they have not changed and its a repeated cycle of lie, get caught, explain, then apologize, and then they swear it will NEVER happen again. But it usually does and for anyone to say I cant be with someone if I cant trust them is just crazy! because when you are sooo In Love you just learn to Look over it and you find yourself weighing the options still feeling like you are wearing that HUGE SIGN on your forehead.